tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post7429268257190667947..comments2023-11-14T11:23:22.796-06:00Comments on JUST BETWEEN ME AND YOU: Who's The Idiot?Grandma Yellow Hairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10917551672825097342noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-57768953230787574462010-10-26T13:09:23.440-05:002010-10-26T13:09:23.440-05:00Yes, Maggie, time to find another doctor. I know ...Yes, Maggie, time to find another doctor. I know someone who had both kinds of breast cancer in the same breast...thankfully, she is now in remission!Taos Sunflowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14858962854162972354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-72638573363174699942010-10-16T08:15:15.176-05:002010-10-16T08:15:15.176-05:00My mom passed away in her 30's from breast can...My mom passed away in her 30's from breast cancer so I'm a NUT when it comes to any kind of cancer. I know what you mean about printing out your own MD cert. I feel the same way sometimes. You are your own patient advocate. I hope this all is resolved soon for you.Sarah @ Sugar Bananashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01808974251930031951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-84771120621787352262010-10-15T12:12:28.154-05:002010-10-15T12:12:28.154-05:00Hi, sweet Maggie. My sister has been here from out...Hi, sweet Maggie. My sister has been here from out of state and I have not been online. I just now read your last two posts. I am so glad to hear that you are going to get a second opinion on your breast issue. <br /><br />Good for Ms. Pearl coming to surface at the doctor's office. You may have still been sitting there today had she not. I would have given up on that doctor I think by now if I were in your place. It seems you have not had the best of luck with the office help nor him. <br /><br />The pictures in this post or beautiful. <br /><br />Still praying for you, Gary and Kaci. <br /><br />Hoping all turns out well for you and your next doctor's appointment. Will be waiting anxiously to hear. <br /><br />Love and hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-66722976302135508282010-10-13T16:57:53.121-05:002010-10-13T16:57:53.121-05:00G'day sweet Maggie ~ Were you seeing a Kaiser ...G'day sweet Maggie ~ Were you seeing a Kaiser Permanente Dr, per chance?! Oh the tales I can share with you & am so blessed by God I am still alive after 25 years of horrible care ...<br /><br />I just had a Dr. 4 yrs ago tell me this 'rash' on my nose was just roscea & to use a cream. Well, it came & went so I didn't think much about it but recently went to a Dr. for another spot on my shoulder. I have nose squamous cancer to be removed in another week ... that first Dr. is going to rue the day she misdiagnosed me ... I called her office after I was diagnosed & asked them to pull up my file, which they did. Yup! They gave me all her detailed diagnosis ... WRONG! <br /><br />I am not a happy camper right now.<br /><br />So hope you find another specialist quickly, sweetie ... <br />Have a great eve ~ <br />TTFN ~ Hugs of love, MarydonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05697196986038110683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-56669029137707828912010-10-13T15:11:07.370-05:002010-10-13T15:11:07.370-05:00OH my dearest Grandmayellowhair... ( I do love tha...OH my dearest Grandmayellowhair... ( I do love that name LOL !!) Please do get a second opinion as soon as ever possible... As well as trying the cream which hopefully will help...Your Dr. sounds a real drip to me and I woudn't trust him as far as I could throw him...and that aint very far ...<br />God bless keep feeing us the news.<br />Love Sybil xxxxxSybilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02516012178494813281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-1118271766911900072010-10-13T10:03:24.385-05:002010-10-13T10:03:24.385-05:00Thanks everyone for the caring comments. I will be...Thanks everyone for the caring comments. I will be back sometime today to try and visit everyone. Right now I have to go to my brother Gary and help him.<br />Wanted to tell you to click on Peas button just two comments up and see the Birthday party she is having. OH my I have never seen anything like it and I am there having the best time and I finally see my waist again..hahahaha<br />Love<br />MaggieGrandma Yellow Hairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10917551672825097342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-29231572948827513532010-10-13T07:48:26.730-05:002010-10-13T07:48:26.730-05:00Maggie,
Yes, change doctors. I'm sure there is...Maggie,<br />Yes, change doctors. I'm sure there is one out there that has a little compassion and sensitivity towards his/her patients. Sadly, this is a story I hear often in my area. <br />But I was laughing out loud at the restraint you showed in the waiting room. I know I would have scratched it!! I would have strategically propped a newspaper or magazine in front of me for a few seconds! LOL <br />KimKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04738934059756079283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-23009216479204997952010-10-13T07:42:49.912-05:002010-10-13T07:42:49.912-05:00I will be back to catch up on your posts but right...I will be back to catch up on your posts but right now I just wanted to invite you to my birthday party on my blog...get ready to do the jitterbug:-) xoxoCarole Buranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05497329055251626140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-81753278626851399262010-10-13T05:43:15.810-05:002010-10-13T05:43:15.810-05:00I hope you're feeling much better by now.. Too...I hope you're feeling much better by now.. Too bad you don't live next door to me , cause I could have had ya feeling better the same day the itch started:) <br /> anyway, other professions are IN and DO business- doctors have a practice and are always practicing on US their entire career.. WE have to tell them whats wrong with us in detail and from there they start a hit and miss game of " lets try this and lets try that", which they loose 60% of the time , and at our expense.. <br /> I'm sending you healing energy and good wishes..Sonny Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06926830309207639536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-4716806802590589992010-10-13T00:18:48.218-05:002010-10-13T00:18:48.218-05:00Maggie Maggie you just don't know how much my ...Maggie Maggie you just don't know how much my hubby and I love reading your site. <br />I even read him your comments that are left by others and he loves some of their funny things they say back to you.<br />Bill S mentioned that men should not probably be commenting on this post. I don't see why not. I totally agree with what he posted about you and girl I too would love love working along side of you. So move over Bill...heehee<br />If my hubby had a blog you can bet he would be on this site leaving comments every day. <br />He laughs so hard when I share you with him and when I don't come by here he will ask me What is Maggie up to these days? Now believe me when I say for him to ask about a blogging friend is just way out in left field but I swear he will ask about you.<br />You are smart and know your own body so like everyone else mentioned listen to yourself and go find a doctor that listens to his patients. The other one has issues that you do not have time to deal with.<br />How is your back? I have wanted to send you an email and ask you how your treatments were going but have been behind with computer friends.<br />The weather here is like what you are having just beautiful.<br />Your library you visit is something out of a story book. I can not imagine having a place like that to meditate or read a book. Especially in a small town such a Round Top...is it true the population is only 77 people and they have a library like this.<br />Love the flowers and glad you felt like sharing these with us.<br />Maybe you should visit this place more often and keep your blood pressure down. hahahaha<br />Anyway it is late and I need to try and sleep the alarm goes off way too early especially on Wednesdays<br />Keep writing and we will keep you in our prayers<br />Always<br />TamTamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05802410935536370647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-72650194366045226092010-10-12T21:11:50.745-05:002010-10-12T21:11:50.745-05:00I absolutely love doctors that think they know eve...I absolutely love doctors that think they know everything in the entire world and have nothing to learn. *head desk* I would have been so furious and am angry for you! Big hugs!! I hope you can find a better dr that takes your concerns seriously!Lyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10457733387836792515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-57996885322799969862010-10-12T21:08:08.298-05:002010-10-12T21:08:08.298-05:00I have heard of that cancer. I hope and pray yours...I have heard of that cancer. I hope and pray yours is just a rash! But get a new doctor who will take you more serious!Cherriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10387924663223325088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-79042135079657764452010-10-12T20:43:44.805-05:002010-10-12T20:43:44.805-05:00I feel just like you do about doctors these days. ...I feel just like you do about doctors these days. And I REALLY hate it when they don't listen to me.<br /><br />I hope he's right, but the point is that he should be checking out all of the possibilities and not just "deciding" that it's the least complicated one.<br /><br />Hugs.<br />=)Susan Andersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16049586085703324088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-88012545155677388302010-10-12T20:01:33.094-05:002010-10-12T20:01:33.094-05:00Oh Maggie, You definitely need to find a new docto...Oh Maggie, You definitely need to find a new doctor. One that will listen to you instead of brushing you off. You are the patient. I know that I have learn a lot in dealing with my hubby's illness. I learned how to fire doctors amd how to make them listen to what I am saying. I asked a doctor for his recommendation of who he would see if it was a member of his family because I did not like the doctor we were seeing because he wouldn't listen to what I was saying. I would share him with you if your were closer. He would send you for another opinion and definitely not treat you the way the ???? doctor did. When I was down on Thursday, we arrived early,I was going to wait but we didn't wait at all. That is because he doen't want my hubby sitting in his waiting room coming in contact with something that would make him sick. We were in the car and headed home at the time of my appointment. You don't find many like him. He has been there with us from day one of my hubbys illness and doesn't want him to go backwards if we can keep from it. You don't find many like him. Hang in there and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Your Missouri Friend.Shirleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06648865214694535566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-14853387521061110502010-10-12T19:53:43.726-05:002010-10-12T19:53:43.726-05:00People always seem to forget that Doctors are in Y...People always seem to forget that Doctors are in YOUR EMPLOY...you pay them, not the other way around. By all means go hire a new one. Always follow your gut. If you are wrong all you've lost is the office visit fee, if the Doc's wrong what's lost is a life. There are good ones out there. My Hubby is the best...but he's a Chiropractor and he's not allowed to look at your ichy breast! HaHaHa! Joking aside, follow Donna's advice and good luck!yayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12047536332780197024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-33006670582631976162010-10-12T19:30:45.924-05:002010-10-12T19:30:45.924-05:00"YOU" know what is right...so do it...do..."YOU" know what is right...so do it...don't let the doctor get the better of you..<br />Take care. You are in my prayers...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07605674805062333927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-16847444485870856222010-10-12T19:07:45.764-05:002010-10-12T19:07:45.764-05:00So sorry dear. I have always said you have to be ...So sorry dear. I have always said you have to be your own advocate. When I first found my lump and was referred to a surgeon, his words were it is just a lipoma and they are always okay. He even acted mad at us for worrying. Guess what, when he did the surgery in his office he started saying that it looked like it was malignant and that part of my leg would have to be removed. He didn't flag this to the pathologist and he hadn't seen this kind of cancer and misdiagnosed. Six months later the tumor was back. I was so mad at this doctor and the pathologist. I made the pathologist apologize. Yep, I did. The hospital administrator called and asked what they could do......and the doctor called me. The stupid doctor never even called me.<br />So be tough my dear.......do what you need to. Prayers. ((((HUGS))))Debbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04242778760582160429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-17043685185146607452010-10-12T18:58:15.584-05:002010-10-12T18:58:15.584-05:00Oh Maggie! I know it isn't funny, but you have...Oh Maggie! I know it isn't funny, but you have a real flair for comedy. I have come to think most of the doctors I know should be 'practicing' while wearing animal hides and swinging dead chickens around.<br />Thanks for your advice for the blogazine. Can we put it off until I get my Christmas stuff on there?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-42300662188253822702010-10-12T18:11:20.295-05:002010-10-12T18:11:20.295-05:00Maggie...Agree with the above consensus...change d...Maggie...Agree with the above consensus...change doctors!!! (I DO admire your restraint in not itching inappropriately...you make me laugh out loud!!)<br /> Do you know any nurses? Especially surgery nurses? They work with them and know who the good ones are. You could even call your local hospital, ask for the surgery charge nurse and say that you are lookiing for a good breast surgeon in your area. Every supervisor that I have ever had would answer you honestly and help you. Good Luck...<br />meanwhile, I have an itchy shoulder and am using my back scratcher from Pier One that cost $1...want me to share???Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13063538863025012110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-72663129323718530152010-10-12T17:41:47.423-05:002010-10-12T17:41:47.423-05:00Men should not repond to this post, but I will. Y...Men should not repond to this post, but I will. You are a spicy woman and I would love to work next to you. I would never stop laughing. You remind me of my grandmother. She was brutally honest and I loved. When I needed discipled, she did it with gusto.<br /><br />Get a second and third opinion. You need to know the truth and get some piece of mind.<br /><br />Good luck and happy dreams.Bill S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17918013366385456020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-2093805171187921622010-10-12T17:00:25.335-05:002010-10-12T17:00:25.335-05:00what has happened to professionalism and manners, ...what has happened to professionalism and manners, etc?? You sound like you really had an awful time. I do hope it is just a rash and the cream helps. Even though it is unlikely, according to your dr, to have two different types of cancer in the same place, it is not impossible. And with your history that man should have never just blown it off like that! OMG now you have me fired up...maybe I can get some housework done...take care.joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12112607125596693550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-87820461661722354762010-10-12T16:14:41.893-05:002010-10-12T16:14:41.893-05:00I hope that the cream works and he was right. I wo...I hope that the cream works and he was right. I would look for a new dr soon.<br />It don't hurt to get a 2nd opinion!!<br />Thanks for sharing this info.<br />Prayers and hugs dear friend.Sharonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17017522696998830615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-73008974999167062812010-10-12T15:37:53.131-05:002010-10-12T15:37:53.131-05:00From what I gather from your previous posts your c...From what I gather from your previous posts your confidence in this particular is rather low to begin with.<br />I know you won't mess around now in shopping for a new doctor.<br />Positive thoughts from me to you, big time, Maggie<br /><br />Hugs & ♥♥♥,<br />GerryGerryARThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10730757811478587648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-64394132048372313522010-10-12T15:02:42.555-05:002010-10-12T15:02:42.555-05:00Maggie,
CHANGE DOCTORS!!! Honey, that A* H*** (s...Maggie, <br /><br />CHANGE DOCTORS!!! Honey, that A* H*** (sorry, Lord for my words)has got some condescending nerve. Get another opinion and just write off Dr. Donothing.<br /><br />I changed Gyn just a few months ago and I'm so glad I went for that second opinion. Made a huge difference for my personal issue because I didn't need the surgery that my first doctor was pushing for.<br /><br />You're a smart cookie (and Mrs. Pearl is there for backup)so trust your instincts.<br /><br />Big hugs, Marla<br /><br />Big hugs, MarlaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3190495681369643112.post-16501310460181886272010-10-12T14:57:16.131-05:002010-10-12T14:57:16.131-05:00Yup you have to stick up for yourself especially w...Yup you have to stick up for yourself especially when YOU think its something more than the doctor says it is.Altho what's the harm try the cream out,while you look for another doctor for a second opinion.<br />Don't feel bad I have had a few murderous thoughts towards my x doctor myself.<br />I have to go to a clinic myself tonight and I am NOT looking forward to it..sick people go there ya know... all I want is a refil on my prescription.<br />DianeDiane at Crafty Passionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11552469700475881327noreply@blogger.com